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π€ͺ Did you survive?!?!?!
Hey Reader!
Omg, every year I completely forget (or willfully forget?) how totally, completely crazy pants May is. Like the Holderness Family says: It's December, but without the cookies to get you through. π
I mean I'm not going to go into all of the things I accomplished last month, but if I did you'd be totally blown away.
We're talking things like selling a house and getting ready for a month long trip while doing all of the graduations, end of year events, birthday parties (3, thank you very much!) and wraps ups that May brings.
FINE.
I will accept your crown for Queen of Accomplishments. π π
And in the past, I would have been ticked, if I'm being honest.
The soundtrack in my head would have been all about how I do so much, I'm on my own, I'm the only one who can do it all, and without me to run it, the world will probably combust, or at the very least, fall into a state of khaki pants at backyard BBQs and we all know there's no recovering from that.
But, this year, I just got into it because I knew it was going to end.
I could clearly see that as soon as the kids were out of school, it would all settle again, as it always does, and I'd remind myself of that fact every time I felt start myself getting worked up.
And it ended up being, dare I say, fun!
I connected with a lot of people I haven't seen in awhile, we celebrated important life milestones, we wrapped up some big things that were hanging out there.
We could have said no to things, but I just leaned into the idea that some months are busy.
It doesn't say anything about who we are, or if we're living life correctly, or if this is how it will always be.
Do I want every month to be like May? OMG, no.
Is it fantastic that we have so many people that we want to share our lives with, that we have events to celebrate, big things we're executing on? YES.
Am I ready to head into several quieter months where we can fill ourselves back up and rest? I can't wait.
I have no doubt that I will be dying for school and a return to structure in August, but, for now, I'm going to relish the slower pace, having the kids around, and not having to bribe, steal, and beg to get people to school on time.
I know the summer will end so I'm going to do my best to enjoy it.
What about you? How can you really lean into summer vibes and enjoy it, knowing it will end?
Do you need to take some things off the list? Sit down as a family and plan a few fun excursions? Get some dates with friends on the calendar? Join the pool you've been thinking about? Outsource the big house project that's looming over you?
This is your summer and you get to do how you want, k?
I would love to hear how you're going to summer it up - email me back with one idea you have and let's go, Summertime!
xx. Kara
π YOUR "FEEL BETTER" OF THE WEEK!
Remember how a month or two ago, I ran that 5 Day Challenge and was all up in your inbox? (See: Aftermath of my office.)
It felt amazing, I was riding high, and so excited to be doing THE WORK.
And then May hit, it all came to a grinding halt, and I didn't even manage to get out my follow up survey. π¬
But, I did it! Very imperfectly, but I did it, and this next time will be easier and tighter, right?
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π Hi! I'm Kara and I can't help being myself.
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